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Fatherhood and co-parenting have evolved significantly over the past few decades, reflecting changes in family dynamics and societal expectations. As the role of fathers in childrearing continues to grow, so too does the body of research examining how fathers contribute to family cohesion, child development, and partner relationships. Understanding the complexities of fatherhood is crucial, […]

Narcissistic relationships follow a predictable cycle that emotionally drains and manipulates the victim. Initially, the narcissist engages in love-bombing, overwhelming their partner with charm and attention. This stage builds a strong emotional attachment, making the victim feel special and desired. As the relationship progresses, the narcissist shifts into the devaluation phase. During devaluation, manipulation tactics

Intimate partner violence (IPV) is a serious global issue that affects individuals of all genders and social identities. Traditionally viewed as a gendered phenomenon primarily impacting women, emerging research indicates that men are also significant victims. However, societal perceptions of masculinity often complicate the recognition of men as victims of IPV. Gender roles and expectations

Child maintenance in South Africa is governed by the Maintenance Act, which outlines both parents’ obligations to financially support their children. The legal framework ensures that the child’s best interests are prioritized, mandating both parents to contribute based on their financial capabilities. This obligation extends to children under 18, and in some cases, over 18,

At Fathers 4 Justice South Africa (F4J SA), we believe that not only is it a legal responsibility but child maintenance is the responsibility of both parents, within their financial means. Yet, all too often, maintenance is misused as a weapon—primarily against fathers—forcing them to “buy” time with their children. Lawyers and the family court

Divorce is a significant event that reshapes family dynamics, especially impacting children’s well-being. The study, Post-Divorce Family Relationships as Mediating Factors in the Consequences of Divorce for Children by Robert D. Hess and Kathleen A. Camara (1979), investigates how family relationships after divorce influence child development. Specifically, it examines the roles of parents and how

After a divorce or separation, parents must adapt to new roles that can greatly influence their children’s well-being. Three main parenting styles emerge: co-parenting, parallel parenting, and hybrid parenting. Understanding the pros and cons of each approach can help parents choose a method that promotes emotional stability and development for their children. This article summarizes