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How do you get men onto the battlefield? Simple, aggrandize those men with honours, uniforms, and medals on their chests. Feminists observe this and become green with envy. If pointing out this envy in women will be disallowed as “sexist,” then let me show you the exact same thing in a man instead.
The early death of his father left Friedrich Nietzsche (1844-1900) in the care of women who “petted him into an almost feminine delicacy.” So that, “all his life long he was to seek physical and intellectual means of hardening himself into an idealized masculinity.” Even so, he did NOT welcome military conscription.
“He would have been glad to get exemption as nearsighted and the only son of a widow, but the army claimed him nevertheless; even philosophers were welcomed as cannon fodder. . . However, a fall from a horse so wrenched his breast muscles that the recruiting sergeant was forced to yield up his prey.”
He would have been glad to enjoy the same exemption accorded all women, except for one thing: his brief military experience left him with “many delusions about soldiers.” The view of military life as “commanding and obeying, of endurance and discipline, appealed to his imagination, now that he was free from the necessity of realizing this ideal himself; he came to worship the soldier because his health would not permit him to become one.”
Many a feminist worship the “glory” of the soldier because her sex does not permit her to become one. Like the average feminist, Nietzsche felt shut out of manly matters. So, he too had a delusional disdain for all things feminine and aggrandized all things masculine. Natalie Angier, “The world of men IS the world.” Betty Friedan’s “The Feminine Mystique” could as easily be retiled, the feminine “social construct” (or the feminine BS). In fact, Friedan actually compared stultified housewives to the walking dead in Nazi concentration camps! [Feminine Mystique, p.305] To feminists, femininity (when displayed by women) is an embarrassment. In it, they see only baby-making, subservience, powerlessness, and “Second Sex” irrelevance. According to the Feminine Mystique, the female role and being feminine are the worst fate that could befall a woman. But, as seen from a Gender Equalist perspective: both women and men each enjoy and suffer their own particular version of the human condition, men more respected/less loved, women more loved/less respected—which one’s better, which is worse . . . who can possibly claim to Know? The only certainty is that women elicit more empathy than men.
What’s most interesting to me is this: should a man feel “deprived” of the battlefield, he’s granted little credibility. Such a man will be judged a pure fool. Obviously, the man has been spared the horrors of war, not deprived of them. Yet, when women talk of being “excluded” from the battlefield, no one has the courage to call them on it. If you’ve seen the wonderful Lord of the Rings film trilogy, then consider the “plight” of Eowyn, the King’s niece given numerous (one might even say endless) speeches decrying the injustice of being a woman barred from battle. Poor Eowyn suffers her lack of participation in blood sports so terribly the film would have us weep for her.
I’ll never forget my older brother sweating it out. Would he be drafted into the Vietnam War? He did not shake and moan and wring his hands for fear of being “excluded.”
In point of fact, it’s true; women have been “excluded” from the battlefield. Yet eyes may roll just the same because this truth is superseded by another truth that transcends it by a hundred orders of magnitude: women have always been EXEMPT from the battlefield.
– Tim Goldich
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