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Posted By: Marianne on 2010-04-06 09:29:03 (Report this Post)
   
Subject adoption
So, in our current law, if a couple is not married, but are straight and adopt a baby, only the one parent can adopt. If they are gay, both can adopt. I am the mother of a child and we had the father sign the papers in order to get the child registered on HIS surname. We split up later, and now I am living to regret it, because everything that all men complain about the mothers of their child/children, I am now experiencing, with the only difference that I have NO RIGHTS whatsoever. Imagine my position.

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Reply Posted By: Charles on 2010-04-07 22:33:31 (Report this Post)
   
Subject RE: adoption
hmmm... not to put too fine a point on it, and not detracting from your pain and frustration in any way, we don't have to imagine ANYTHING: we live with this situation every day, we divorced fathers.

I figure on making you an honorary divorced-dad - at least you understand what WE go through. Welcome to our world!

Maybe Gary (the PR guy) can point you in the right direction with this.

Good luck!

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