Divorced 4 years; Mother has sole custody; Dad made minimal contact and minimal maintenance; Children at time aged 3 and 5 now 7 and 9; can father now get more visitation like overnight stays etc;who decides this as mother has sole custody is she responsible to say how much time or does the court decide
As the children get older, of course more visitation should be introduced. The parents should try and agree and be reasonable. If not, a court order and costs should be obtained against the unreasonable parent.