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Fathers-4-Justice South Africa
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September 4, 2010, 9:48 pm |
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FAQs |
My hubby's ex refuses any contact with his 13 year old son. They don't answer their phone when we call. Hubby has to phone the school to talk to him on Friday, but sometimes he can't get hold of him at all. The son wants to come and stay with us, but his mother said NO. The son lived with us for a year, but was taken back the end of the year, because we apparently didn't look after him well enough. We live in Pretoria and they in KZN. Hubby pay maintenance on time every month. We suspect that she has borderline personality disorder, all the symptoms is applicable. Ex and step dad have a child (boy) together that seemingly does nothing wrong. The son seems to be unhappy with them, he is always in trouble and the step father has to punish him (by hitting with belt) on a regurlar basis. We worry about this. The way the step dad speaks about it, almost seems as if he is enjoying it. We can not afford long drawn out court procedures. What are we to do?
If she refuses contact as per the existing court order, lay a CRIMINAL charge Contempt of Court at the SAPS and push them to prosecute. As for a change in primary residency, the child is old enough to be heard. But it will need a court application and support by a child psychologist.
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