My sons mother has approached her lawyer as she wants to prevent me from picking him up every second weekend, as he (my son - 2 1/2 years old) is going through a "phase" of pottie training and she says she does not want to disrupt his routine. I pay maintanence every month without fail. My son has been coming to me every alternate weekend for the past 6 months.Can she do this? That is prevent me from picking him up when it is my weekend?
If she wants to change anything to the existing court order, she has to apply for a variation order at the court. Neither she, nor her attorney can alter a court order. If they do, you should lay CRIMINAL charges of Contempt of Court at her nearest SAPS and push them to prosecute. Also report the attorney to his Law Society for unethical conduct.